do you ever like
get into a group, maybe a small group, and every time you see someone else is in the group you are like “hey!!!!!!yes” and everyone is friends and life is great
and then someone in the group does something REALLY DUMB
well not like impermissible but you might be like “fwooooo ouch that’s…embarrassing…” and you want to correct them or advise them but YOU’RE SCARED YOU’RE GONNA BE MEAN AND THEY ARE YOUR PEOPLE AND YOU DON’T WANT TO BE MEAN AND YOU TRY TO SAY IT NICELY BUT YOU CAN’T EVEN DO THAT AND YOU JUST SORT OF SHrink away and cry
